What A Women Wants!!

What do women want? It’s the age-old question.

So what is it that women really want, if it is not a life focused on production and domination, nor does she want to lead the way? What she wants, as a woman, and as a human being, is the freedom to fully express and receive love and if not appreciated but acknowledged for all she does to ensure she provides all that her family, her loved ones need.

What women want from men/partner is confidence. Confidence... not arrogance, not dominance, not one-upmanship, not macho heroics. Relationship satisfaction has a lot to do with the way partners are able to read and empathize with each other’s emotions. For women, that applies more to their negative emotions than their positive ones: women are happy when their boyfriend or partner understands they’re upset, or what they need... When they feel that things do happen or revolve as per there wishes.

For Centuries now, women since the time  she is born, is been told that she has no right over her family, as she belongs to someone else and that her husband's home is her real home, growing up she struggles to strike a  balance b/w her responsibilities for her paternal home, and preparation for her husband's home..All though a life of women revolves around the wishes of people related to her, which often builds a vacuum in them, or a desire to have things as they like it, which often gets offensive and taken as there ego when it crosses the line of patience.

All her dreams, hope, desires are then what she relates to her partner, and feel one person of her life would give her, comfort her or at least consider her likes dislikes etc. 

Women certainly want admiration and respect, but our deepest desire is to be loved. As the Chazon Ish, a prominent rabbi of the last century, wrote, "A woman's nature is to find favor in her lover's eyes."

We may want our partner to appreciate the clever way we negotiated that last deal or the creative way we redecorated the living room, but love trumps all. Her happiness usually is in the tiniest of moments, the way she cooked food, she stayed awake till late to serve her love a hot meal, notice what she wears, and appreciate her efforts. We’ll forgive many minor transgressions if we have that sense of being treasured, of being cared for. And conversely, nothing is more devastating than the suspicion that we have forfeited our partner’s good will.

Men may think "Didn't I tell her yesterday that I loved her?" "Didn't I take her out for our anniversary?" "Is there any limit to the amount of reassurance a woman needs?" Men, it's really very simple: our deepest desire is to be loved, to get that attention of our love.

There is nothing more frustrating than talking to your partner and feeling like he is a million miles away. Women want to be seen (and complimented on how they look) and desperately need to be heard. Nodding a “yes” to everything doesn’t mean you have proved your love for her...If you hear her, and do even 10% of what she ask, and do it when she is least expecting is, it’s the most beautiful feeling to women. 

When we talk 'listen', it shows us that you care about our feelings. With women communication is the key, so try and talk to us often. Here are some traits we wish men would display - chivalry, making an extra effort with our friends and family, because we do the same! Through clear words and eye contact: "I love you." n aspect of feeling loved is feeling desired.

Cook for us once in a while - this one may sound like a cliché, but we love surprises so an occasional effort wouldn't hurt, would it? We need our man to proclaim love all the time and we leave it to you as to how you wish to show it.

Believe in your wife/girlfriend and support and encourage us in everything we do. Because we tend to see us through others eyes, and want to fill that space of other desires that our related to us.

No matter how accomplished we are, no matter how many tasks we can accomplish on our own, we like to have someone taking care of us, looking out for us, protecting us. I don't need my Partner to kill bugs for me but I do like him to assuage my fears and anxieties and I know I'm not alone. 

An aspect of feeling loved is feeling desired.  If your wife asks you if she looks fat, the answer is ALWAYS no. Even if she's expecting triplets! There is NO myth of honesty in this situation. But more than that, while "You don't look fat" is certainly better than "You could use to lose a few pounds," "You always look beautiful to me" is best of all. "No matter what you weigh, I'll always find you attractive" is also good. And don't stop there. "I like the way that dress looks on you." "Those are great colors." "That's a good style for you." Even an appreciative smile goes a long way. 

There’s no question of this, if you disrespect her you may as well throw the relationship out of the window right now.  It’s not only respect for her but its respect for you as well.  If you let people walk all over you then you are not respecting yourself and this is a turn off for women.

She play All possible roles to comfort her man, from a lover, to a wife, to mother, and support, your 4 am Buddy, trust me she loves playing such roles and this gives her completion, you don’t need to feed her with Diamonds or exotic dinners or lavish cars. The warmth of your arms that massage when she is tired, a smile when she is struggling, or just a mere “Thank you” when she is low, is all she needs.

She might not talk to you for days, or walk out after a fight, or doesn’t talk to u, showing ego, and the pretending the fact that she doesn’t care, or it doesn’t effect her...But it does...All You need to do is tell her that she is needed, and she matter to you, and it does effect you when she is not around..Or that no ego no tiff no ugly fight would ever affect the love you have for her.

They say understanding women, is a puzzle no one has ever been able to crack, but these complexities are just ignorance. 

The one and only way to handle a woman is to love her, simply love her, merely love her, love her, and love her." The day you give her that, women would no longer be a mystery!!